Words of control

 Be ware of those, that use words to control the outcome of you. Words like, that was aggressive, that was rude, that was out there, wow (in the middle of you talking) and many other words that are aimed at down playing your opinion, belief or factual outcome. 

 Dont forget they will generally use words of control with the eye rolls, facial displays or some form of non communication to overshadow what you are doing. 

There are many out there that will use words to change direction or make you seem like you are the problem or you are at fault.

When the truth is, you nailed it and they cant handle the truth. They cant stand for the fact that you were spot on with your words. So in turn, their only recourse is to make you seem like a problem and many times do it in a public forum. With only their side being spun.




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